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SPICY TAKES: How can I get my life together and stay clean off these boys so I can heal?

SPICY TAKES: How can I get my life together and stay clean off these boys so I can heal?

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

April 18, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. This is a continuation of last week’s Spicy Take. Last week, Sierra discussed how to overcome trauma from a sexually abusive relationship. Everybody goes through some sort of trauma. I want to personally thank Body Betrayal for choosing to share h...

SPICY TAKES: Overcoming sexual trauma

SPICY TAKES: Overcoming sexual trauma

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

April 10, 2019

Reader warning: the following story contains graphic descriptions of sexual assault. Being an advice columnist is typically pretty fun. I get a lot of crazy submissions and for the most part, I almost immediately know how to respond. I am a Spicy Take queen, after all. This week was different: I rec...

SPICY TAKES: Pubes in a modern age

SPICY TAKES: Pubes in a modern age

Sierra Savage

March 28, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. Everyone past the age of puberty has struggled with it at some point in time. Today we’re recognizing that struggle by talking about pubic hair. Does it matter? Do the people you’re screwing ...

SPICY TAKES: Maybe you should moan because you like it

SPICY TAKES: Maybe you should moan because you like it

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

March 16, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. This past week you may have noticed the absence of Spicy Takes. I was devastated too. I don’t really feel the need to explain myself, but regardless I’d like to talk about why because I know I...

SPICY TAKES: Butt play doesn’t make you gay

SPICY TAKES: Butt play doesn’t make you gay

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

February 20, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. My good friend David has been watching a weird Hulu show called Letterkenny. Last night he got me hooked. There was a cold open that I felt especially encapsulates this exact question. ...

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: My boyfriend wants me to stick it in the peach

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: My boyfriend wants me to stick it in the peach

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

February 14, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. Q: "My boyfriend is less experienced sexually than I am, but he wants me to finger his ass. I’ve never done it before but I feel like he expects great things from me. I’m scared I’ll do it w...

SPICY TAKES: ‘Slut’ is a made up word

SPICY TAKES: ‘Slut’ is a made up word

Sierra Savage

February 7, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. All I currently want to talk about is Tidying up with Marie Kondo. I’m obsessed. Not only are her tidying skills on point but her emphasis on self-acceptance is iconic and has soothed my soul a...

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: A Tinder boy comes back

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: A Tinder boy comes back

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

January 30, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. This past week I finally decided to make a finsta. For those unaware, according to Urban Dictionary, a finsta is a ‘fake’ Instagram account where you post all the garbage you’re unwilling to show a majority of your followers. Mine i...

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: New year, new you?

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: New year, new you?

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

January 23, 2019

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. This winter break has been the best of times and the worst of times. It’s really allowed me a lot of time for self-reflection. I’ve had friends who have struggled unexpectedly and unimagin...

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: Bad hygiene and age gaps

Sierra’s Spicy Takes: Bad hygiene and age gaps

Sierra Savage, Distribution manager

November 28, 2018

Reader be advised: Sierra’s Spicy Takes is, as the kids might say, NSFW. Read at your own discretion. Everyone is special in their own way, but sometimes, two questions are so similar that it would be silly to answer them both individually. This week, we bring you the hygiene double whammy! In addi...

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